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What You Need to Know to Enjoy Pornography

The sex we see in¬†old adult porn¬†movies is not real, we all know this. However, many people still believe that pornography is a way to “educate” yourself about sexual matters. They see pornography to “learn”, instead of to “propose” and just this confusion generates many frustrations, because in real life it is very unlikely that a man can maintain an erection for two hours straight or convince two unknown girls to do a trio with him. Likewise, many women who see pornography may feel uncomfortable with their own nakedness when comparing their body with that of actresses, or come to believe that something is wrong with them because they do not enjoy sex hand stops or in any of those positions strange whose purpose is the interesting shots and we do not order them.

And is that the purposes of porn are not orgasms, at least not the actors, they may not even be enjoying the situation, their job is to make the viewer who enjoy, because, and this is what you should never forget: pornography is a spectacle. Youcannot expect to be educated as youcannot expect to be educated by a variety show on television, its purpose is entertainment, and, therefore, it is a fiction.

Enjoy Porn in real life

This does not mean that people in real life are not able to enjoy sex as much or more than the characters in a porn movie. Both men and women can (and should) enjoy sex deeply; however, it does not have to be in the same terms that pornography proposes. In the first place, because most of the time the industry is oriented towards satisfying a male audience almost in its entirety, so the situations and fantasies that are represented are not always desirable for women. Also, porn is not there to set the example, it does not mean that because we enjoy watching something we necessarily want to practice it.

Pornography is actually a profession

Think for example in sports, soccer or dance, you enjoy watching them, they excite you, but you never expect that when you play or dance you have to do it like the professionals you see on television, the same happens with pornography, those who do it are just Professionals trained as athletes, it’s their job and for many of them it’s fun. It would have to be fun for us too, not a manual that we should study. If you have this clear, your experience as spectators will be much more pleasant.

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